Relationship Therapy
“I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.”— Virginia Satir, family therapist
This ideal of an intimate relationship seems harder and harder to achieve. Our own traumas, unrealistic expectations, value clashes, and the constant distractions of everyday life can be toxic to our deepest, most important relationships. Conflicts arise, contempt and judgment prevail, and we begin to separate from one another. When blame surfaces and we become defensive, we lose track of the various forces in the background that affect our relationships — many of them not anyone’s fault.
Relationship therapy is a place to focus on each other, and to re-focus efforts to sustain relationships away from the distractions and stresses of everyday life.
One reason for conflict is differences in sexual desires and values. We practice from a sex-positive perspective — an attitude that accepts and celebrates the diversity of human sexual expression. Many therapists are quick to judge sexual behavior based on preconceived notions or an overly moralistic view of sexuality; we believe these cultural judgments universally lead to negative treatment outcomes.
We work with couples, throuples, polycules, and kinky people. Whatever difficulties you may be experiencing in the realm of sexuality, you can be assured NeuroPathways is a shame- and judgment-free zone.
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